All you will get is a Thanks…

After all those efforts of making things right for someone you care for, all you get is a formal “Thank you”…it sucks!!

There are instances in life when you think that the person you helped is not thankful for whatever you did. You feel pathetic about this thought. This is so, because it was something that you did for their happiness without seeing your selfish desire of being happy. Howsoever mild help it may be, you at least expect a “Thanks.”But, if you get a thankless reply, your feelings are hurt and you don’t want to help people anymore. This is about people who are your friends.

Now, the people whom you care for…when these people start thanking you for whatever help you provide to them, then your life becomes miserable. It is a clear indication of how important those people are to you, and what minute place you hold in their jumbo lives. This feeling is the worst when you can see people don’t care for you, but because you are polite to them they talk to you nicely. It hurts deep inside and it hurts badly.

The essence of all my confusion rather anger is that the people are just being nice to you because they know you care for them.

With the thought stated above, came a flow of more thoughts…

Is this the plight of all the guys who are in one sided relationships (I know, it’s sort of an oxymoron, but they are the potential relationships)??

Is this the plight of all those people mad in love with someone who don’t even care about them?

Is this just a phase and a matter of psychological studies?

Is this a matter of right or wrong people?

Is this an example of parent child relationship, where a child says thank you to his/her parents, because he/she is not able to communicate his feelings properly.

Or is this just too much of thought on a stupid situation?

Well, it is a mystery to me. I would appreciate if I could get some help from outside.